Surviving The Day Job Six Easy Lessons

Before I became a full-time writer, I had a job counting envelopes. Not colored envelopes or large manila envelopes, mind you, but white #10 envelopes. I had to count them in series of a hundred. Even now I can see them flashing in my eyes as I flipped through them, blinding myself as though I were looking out at a blanket of snow polished by the sun with dilated pupils. At the end of the day Id leave the office with spots in my eyes.1) I threw away the statement: Ill be happy when Sure I would have been happier if my coworker had stopped adding her pile to mine or I had left that place (screaming in terror) after only an hour of torture. But I needed the money so I fought to be happy about it. I made sure to put the money I earned to good use. Not only was I saving a large chunk for a rainy day and my eventual freedom, but I also traveled to places, bought books I needed (How to Work with People You Cant Stand was especially helpful) and attended writing workshops. Working with a purpose makes life easier. When you just work to survive, life can be very painful.3) I stayed away from the gossip mill. Its fun really. I love stories and gossips tell the best (of course I was also aware that they were talking about me, but oh well) unfortunately, they are a waste of energy. Gossiping about the crappy boss, social climbers, backstabbers and butt kissers is good time poorly spent. Yes, offices have a great cast of characters to talk about, but spending your lunch break complaining all day is not good for the spirit. Take a walk, listen to music, youre at your present job only temporarily and complaining about being there wont make you feel any better about yourself or your situation. Remember youre a temp – your future looks bright. Most of the gossips and complainers will still be there years later, older and more miserable. I know. Ive gone back. Its rather sad really.5) Come up with an escape plan. I dont believe in endless suffering. If you have an abusive boss or your job is giving your headaches and ulcers, Leave It. I dont care what kind of money youre making. Ask for a demotion or start looking in the Want Ads. No job is worth your health. I walked off one job that was completely demoralizing.Sometimes we have to do things we dont like, but they dont have to be an agony. I had many jobs that I couldnt stand, but I knew they were only temporary. Remember: This too shall pass, and your future looks bright.